Recovery Lane
Wisdom for Today
One of my favorite aspects of attending meetings is the incredible diversity
of the people who attend. We all come into the program from different walks of
life. There can be everything from a homeless street addict to a top CEO from
business and industry. You will see doctors, layers, and Indian chiefs,
housewives, blue-collar workers and teenagers, old-timers and people of every
color. Addiction to alcohol and drugs shows no partiality. This very diversity
of the program is one of its greatest assets. Each of us brings our own unique
perspectives on life in recovery. We are able to teach each other by sharing our
experience, strength and hopes with each other. What is one persons character
defect, shortcoming or weakness may be someone else's strength.
Each of us in the program has something to offer another. What is my weakness
may be your strength. And my strength may be exactly what you are looking for.
These strengths and weakness that exist within the program help to balance out
the whole. Finding balance is something we all need, and the program helps us to achieve
just this. We may all have the same problem, but it is this very diversity with
the program that helps us learn how to live life again. It is important for each
of us to recognize that we have something to offer. It is just as important for
each of us to see that we have something to learn. Do I see that balance and
learning to live can be achieved through the members of the program?
Meditations for the Heart
"Stay connected," these are the words my sponsor gave me over and
over again. He wasn't just talking about our relationship, although he expected
me to call him everyday in the beginning. He was talking about staying connected
to my home group. He was talking about staying connected to the program and the
steps. He was talking about staying connected to my Higher Power. At first
staying connected meant being glued to my support system. As I got further along
in recovery, it meant staying plugged in. This connection to all the
support has kept me from going back to relying only on myself, and I know that
would be nothing but trouble. I have seen people with years of recovery under
their belt get unplugged from their support system only to see them
eventually get unplugged from recovery. Because of this I know better. Do I stay
connected?
Petitions to my Higher Power
God,
You have created the world as a place of marked diversity, a place in your
own image. This very diversity is what helps me become a better person and
teaches me how to live with balance. Balance helps me maintain a true sense of
humility. This day help me to stay connected to the support that is always
available to me. Teach me not to fear asking for help. Let me also be willing to
give help when I am asked.
Amen

Author: John W. Stiemke
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Revised: May 20, 2001